Friday, May 22, 2009
friendly disappointment
i have recently been going through some tough times personally, that is not what is concerning me at the moment, what is concerning me is that i made mention of this to the friends that i wanted to share things with, typically the folks i consider to be my 'best friends', or at least those i feel totally comfortable being one hundred percent open and honest with........... most of those folks i had good talks with, they gave me perspective and support......... one friend though, well, one friend, just kind of turned their back on me so to speak, or at least this is kind of how i feel, granted this folkser has a lot going on in their own life (but then again, who the hell doesnt? all my other friend confidants do too), but still looking back on it all and the virtual back turning of the situation really does kind of hurt my feelings......... i am not mad at this person, but i really am kind of disappointed, sad in a way........... they just kind of said, oh, good luck with it all, and i havent heard a peep out of them since......... kind of stinks...........
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Maybe that friend has no idea how you are feeling and maybe you need to call that friend to express your feelings. people are not mind readers (i wish i was!) and friendship is a two way street.
p.s. remember that ALL your friends love and care about you no matter what! that's why they are your friends! even if you haven't talked to someone in a while :)
and maybe other folks reached out and didn't hear back...
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