words of wisdom

these are all things i have learned in the last year:

NEVER EVER EVER EVER get joint accounts with a sig other, i will never even get one with the woman i marry, not going to happen, you can always get fucked in the end.......

if a woman tells you she loves you on the third date, be nice, but run, hard, fast, and as far away as possible....... move quickly, she will latch on, she will wind up fucking you, and not in the good way......

NEVER EVER EVER let a significant other know ANY of your online passwords, EVER..... dont listen to the whole, well i dont care if you have mine argument.... thats your own personal shit, and they should trust you enough to not have to have that info......

if a woman calls you crazy, it is them who is crazy

always know thyself, and never let anyone change who you are, what you do, what you like, who you hang out with, etc. i have had the distinct benefit of having absolutely amazing friends, who even though i disappear to them when i get a girlfriend have always forgiven me for that (jbizzles probably seen the worst of that for some reason..... him and jd...... and these are two of my best friends, mark my words gentlemen, this will NEVER happen again) your friends will always be there, your girlfriends (or even wives) not necessarily........ bros before hos, although i really think this just applies to friends, because i have female friends that i definitely want to keep before a girl, if a girl you are going out with cant handle you being friends with another girl, well, your girl has issues, this is once again, another reason to run, fast, and go hang out with your friends........

families are fucked up, its just how it is, they are weird and twisted in their own way, some more than others, but every family has some skeletons in the closet.......

when a girl leaves you, it is over, period. it is done. do not wait for it to work itself out. if they are unwilling to try to work with you and get through the hard times, they are done and they will leave, and you will be the one who goes crazy if you try to hold on...... it doesnt work (and for females reading this, the same applies to you, the other person is ready to move on, they are not looking back, no matter what they say)

and last but not least, just be you, if someone cant appreciate that, well, fuck them, its not your fault, never let anyone tell you how you are, just BE who you are, if they dont like that, they shouldnt be in your life.......

alright sorry guys just doing a little mental "spring" cleaning if you will......... reflecting on the past 6 months of mental hell i went through, all things considered, i think things worked out ok.......

and on a lighter note, blazer season officially starts back up tomorrow with their first preseason team, oden is back in the mix, we have a deep team this year, i cant fucking wait, jimmy i hope you get that cable on time, and i hope i will be at your place watching the game..... just gonna throw that out there.........